So, let me talk about love for a moment now!!!! First let me post this poem that got me thinking:
Everyone wants the
“Hopeless romantic” Love. The ” u look beautiful in enythin love”. The “you’re my everythin, without u I’m nothin” love. The “I can’t breath without u” love. The “Ill nvr be mad at u” love. The “we’ll be happy forever” love. The “rich prince charming cmin to pick me up and bring me to the castle” love.
Not knowing that’s only in movies.
Gimmie the “real life” love. The “take dat off u look bad” love. The “I got a life and even tho u might be a big part of it ill miss u but be ok wen ur gone n wait for u to come bak” love. The ” u piss me off n I wnt be afraid to tell u wen or tell u how I feel” love. The “life only gets harder from here and if we stay together well be working harder to fight together to make it work” love. The “you met me like this and I nvr promised to give u the world but give u wat I have.” Love
Its hard to get into a relationship with the Hopeless Romantic Love in mind then realizin that he’s only human and he can only love u as much as he knows how. The Real Human Love Not The Fake Brainless Love.
Now the first part of the poem, I know most little girls dream of that type of love but news flash little girls time to grow up like the poem said its ONLY IN MOVIES!!!! (don’t worry I was one of them little girls too lol)…. I think every girl will eventually learn this the hard way when they go through their first serious relationship/love(not puppy love, that does not count). I went through it and i survived it !!!!
But even the second part still seems a little bit off!!! I believe if you truly love someone you should not have to wait for the person to have there fun and come pick you back up when they’re done…..( listen to the song freeze by ll cool j) those type of girls need to start acting smart because if a guy really loves you he will not make you wait!!!! ( like Beyone said ” if you like it then you shud put a ring on it!!!) Ladies need to know men don’t change, they reveal themselves through relationships!!! Love is a tricky thing too cause you can get it confused with lust and even infatuation. Love is about putting your partners needs before your own, being open with your partner about everything, trust, BEING FAITHFUL ( pick one) and a lot more ( too lazy to write the rest) but im sure you guys get my point!!!
I just want to make sure that all the good girls out there dont get hurt and turn into bad girls!!! ( look at what happened to rihanna lol jkz) but for real ladies need to know the difference between all the types of love and make sure the one you end up with is the one that will give you love you deserve!!!! Only you can know that, not your friends nor your family!!!! Same for the guys, there are some bad girls out there so be careful!!!!!
~Mia~